The Road to an Empathic Communicator

January 24, 2007
Class today was very interesting. I learned a number of important tips on how to become a better communicator.
Key Principals:
We need to serve our fellow men in our communications, not our own personal agendas.
Make sure to correctly diagnose a problem before you prescribe a solution.
Empathic listening is achieved:
a. when we throw away our personal agenda
b. when we rephrase content and reflect feeling back
When emotions are high and trust is low do not use autobiographical responses!
These key principals are relevant in every aspect of my life so I can become a better communicator. In applying these principals in my everyday conversations I find them to be very true. I am just starting out on the process of becoming an expert communicator, but I do feel I am making small progress. I feel my conversations are more meaningful and enjoyable.
I taught these principals to a roommate and friend.